humming to sole

on sept 22nd with all the random things in mind, headin' up to Bandung. Just in sake of newest cutest-coolest-hippest- place to eat in this city. Arrived at 8pm, straight to Hummingbird, next to city light sight seeing in Dago pakar and end up slept in Augusta Valley, Setiabudi. Next day drove to Krank Krink, Indieschetafel, Soleluna (the best!) and Lumberjack.. It was a fun day trip with bestfriends who had the most best laugh of all..Promise not to have a heavy conversation along the trip,just laugh,gossips,and eat eat eat!

Mr. Fitz

things been said...

Over thinking ruins you. Ruins the situation, twist things around, makes you worry and just makes everything much worse than it actually is.

THIS WEEK'S PHOTO

some photos taken this week...
Lets have some other fun next week!!

woohoooo!!

Quote of the week

" Its not about finding someone who won't fight with you or make you sad. Its about finding the person who will still be standing there wiping the tears away, holding you in their arms after a fight. The one who will never leave, no matter how hard things get"

sometimes inhale-exhale isnt enough

why i'm feeling super sensitive lately?

I already got my period, and next period should be at the end of the month. Hei yaaa,welcome september. I already hate you before so pleeeasee just play it safe, play it straight and let us move on to next month.

I really need to get this whole thing out of my head. Seriously, I even come to think "what am I doing with my life?"..or.. "what i'm gonna doing with my life?". Last night, me and one of my bestgirl already turn the lights off and hit the bed. With all the sudden, she come with one question, "Din, may I know anything about Lupus?".. Got me a little shocked but I told her everything I know about it. One thing led to another, it become a bit serious convo..

Lately, this whole month made realize a couple things..think think think..worry that I'll be overthink.

- Family always comes first,they said.But when you got married, which family is going to take predence? Which family coming first ? His/Her family, your family or your little family with him? Its really nice to see a couple who able to being fair and made both big family happy as they are. But, as long as my sighting,, I find its hard thing to do. Theres always one side who made it as a problem and come with frown heart.hahaha...One side will need more time with their big family. Talking my own relative, seems like he'd been "controlled" with his wife and put more credit to his wife family than his own. And its made me kinda sad being on his own family. I'm gonna give a super standing applause to people who could do it fair way :) So that everyone happy.

- World trying to tell us that people change..they aren't adopt,they change! Well, maybe they are adopt first and then get used to it and voila! You just like barely know them.Not to be offensive, but after a lot of tittle - tattle , however we come to an conclusion. : men's change when they got a job. well, how can it happen? We assumed thats because their ego comes a little bit more extreme because now that they thing they got some power over his own self , making his own money, and got busy with his own work. So maybe its better when you "meet" him after his got a job and has an employee status. I dont know, maybe its my own opinion (and lot of my girlfriends ;)), but it did happen! By that time you've got ti sing it with Gotye...now you're just somebody that I used to know..

- Sometimes when people said, easy come easy go, I will not that easy to believe that. But now, believe me, its true!!!!

- I remember on one episode of Friends when Joey and Phoebe fight about good deeds, and Joey being a stubborn one and think that there's nothing such a good deeds. People always want something. And Phoebe insist that there is one. But on this, I am Team Joey. I  also think that there is no such things such a good deeds, people always want it back to them. Something back to them. Even for a probono thing and you donate something, you must be want a pleasure feeling. When you did a nice things to people, you must be want they did the same thing to you. In my Religion, it called ilmu Ikhlas, and it did really really hard to conceive. 

- People said when you be nice to your friends, they will do the same thing to you.. Well, that was people said.

- Carpe Diem. or nowadays people called it YOLO (You Only Live Once).Seize the day. Live for today, tomorrow is a different story. Say it to yourself, like Matt Damon said on We Bought A Zoo - all we need is 20 second of insane courage - . But pleeeaaassseeeee,  DON'T imply it on your wallet and bank account. I'm the one who hit the rock bottom. Take it from me, its not easy live in this big city and your alone without your family on your side to support you. In the past few years, I always think like that, we always can find money,but hey, theres no harm to use it wisely right ;) . It hit me when I realize that I cant hold it to my older brother anymore, he has a live too, and of course I cant ask my mom for money anymore, i'm the who should give it to her. I am the one who have to support myself.Guess life is getting hard ha? hahahahhaha Don't be surprise if knowing a fact that I always put a envy to people my age who always get what they want cause they still "have" parent to ask for it ;) *you know what I mean* 

- We always wanna look great and super strong, even in front of our bestfriend. We always intend to hide the feeling and put it under the blanket. Let it hide and try to never show it off. But, sometimes its good to release some vein and tell the prob to person you believe. Some people might think they don't wanna share it because they don't wanna make it hard to everybody and bothered them. Trust me, it won't. They probably even help you solve your problem, but hey a least you a bit relieved. That's what friend are for right?. Because again, ,maybe they have some story that they wanna tell you and its hard for them too. Win win solutions.

- take a day off and have a Me Time... you need that!

Well, think thats quite enough for me to wrote in this calm evening..Cup of tea would be nice... 

lebaran rasa mudik

habis puasa terbitlah lebaran..

buat saya yang gadis minang ini, rasanya agak kurang afdol kalo g pake acara mudik. Namun apa daya, finansial dan keadaan kantor g memungkinkan untuk cabut dan solat Ied di kampung halaman :( Tadinya memang saya berniat untuk lebaran kali ini stay di Bogor saja, karena libur kantor yang sedikit dan tiket yg mahal (ga pake lumayan!!), tapi suatu ketika telpon genggam saya berdering di suatu hari dan tertera tulisan "mamah" dilayarnya.. apa yang bakal kamu lakuin kalo orang tua kamu yang tinggal satu itu nelpon dan bilang " yaaah kamu g pulang lebaran? mama pengennya lebaran sama kamu". JEDERR!!!! Right at the moment when we hung up the phone, I get back to my computer and browsing. Yup, i'm looking for a super reasonable ticket to go. Finger Crossing.

Lebaran rasa rumah. Saya baru inget kalau lebaran tahun kemarin kami sekeluarga emang ngerayainnya d depok, its been quite long not to spend it in bukttinggi. Lebaran di Jakarta ini rasanya kurang lebaran,,jalanan sepi..sanak saudara pada jauh jauh..jadi aja setelah solat ied di rumah Bunda di Bogor, yang ada kita malah tidur - tiduran dan nontonin HBO ampe pusing. Abang saya yg paling tua ikut lebaran dirumah bunda karena dia juga dapet jatah liburnya dikit. Segitu pentingnya ya buat tv nayangin sinetron ampe crew nya g dapet jatah libur yang make sense? hahahah. Hari kedua baru deh kita ketemuan ama kakak dan spupunya si mamah di Grand Indo, yes..mall..Mall again for lebaran!!crap! Hei did I tell you that I got my ticket? Yes, I got my ticket to pulang kampung di hari ke3 lebaran..not bad lah..

Jadinya setelah delay nyaris 4 jam dan macet di padang menuju bukittinggi selama 6 jam,,sampai deh dirumaaah...Nyokap bahkan nrela nge-hold open house makan siang ama keluarga Jirek sampesaya nongol..yay!!

Yaaah walaupun traffic di Bukittinggi waktu lebaran itu sama aja kayak mindahin macetnya Jakarta,tetep diusahain jalan jalan sambil silaturahmiii.. Saya bahkan sempat berkunjung kerumah wali kelas dan bertemu dengan beberapa teman lama. Ketawa ketawa dan nostalgia sama mereka itu tak pernah mengecewakan :))

Senang rasanya melihat si mamah ketawa terus, g pernah ngomong capek. Rasanya mikirin apaaaaa ya yang kira kira bisa saya bantu buat mamah biar dia makin seneng. Kalo urusan beres beres rumah mah g usah ditanya, itu udah pasti ke handle dengan baik ditangan saya *idung mengembang*. Akhirnya bantuan yang diberikan adalah : Free driver!!!

hahaha yup, Mom's not allowed to drive the car, I drove her anywhere she wanna go. FYI, my mom's car is Grand Taft 4x4, can you imagine how heavy and hard the steer wheel?! *pijitpijettangan* My reward to self adalah berhasil nyetir Bukittinggi - Padang (its like jakarta - bandung via puncak) super yay!!!!

see you next year,home :*