the power of stealing someone's thunder

Frank Buffay Jr.: What's with him?
Phoebe: Umm, sympathy pains. I thought it was really sweet at first, but now I think he's just trying to steal my thunder.

For real, I don't really get it for what happen to lately. Maybe its not the right moment to using this magic word.Well, lets talk about this kind of stealing thunder thing.. : interrupt people

"Hey remember when,"
"No"
"And the,"
"No"
"With the,"
"No"
"At the,"
"No""When he,""No"
"And then he,"
"No"

I hate it when people do that to me it is annoying.Yea, and it get's annoying but sometimes people say "Oh, sorry what did you say?.

"Arrrgghh!!!

I really get frustrated when someone interupts me when I am talking because sometimes it gets escpecially hard for me to find the right words to explain the topic of discussion I am talking about. It also frustrates me because when I get interupted while I am talking I almsot always forget what I was talking about after the person interupted me has finished. I just honestly don't get how people can't just be quiet, wait their turn and manage their impulsivity because it is just plain rude.

Some people do not even notice it when they're interrupting others.When someone talks while I am talking, I just try to make him/her understand that I don't wanna be interrupted by raising my voice.Or I also stare at the person with a neutral look, but this doesn't mean I appreciate this behavior.

I hate it when I am talking then all my friends start talking to each other over me.

My mother tends to interrupt me and my brother when we are having various conversations, and it is frustrating. However, I do interrupt my mother a lot when she is talking to me, but that is generally to say "Okay, I got it.", "I know what you are talking about much better than you do! Stop describing!", or "Quit whining!". Unfortunately, she always just ignores me and keeps on her bad habits. But oh well, you can't expect your parents to be perfect, right?

Lets just appreciate each other, I know sometimes we kinda get too excited when our friends telling a story, But hey..just wait till it finish.. Or they'll yelled at you

LET ME FINISH!!!!

Iphone for Steve = iPhone 4S

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary"


“Here’s to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes… the ones who see things differently — they’re not fond of rules… You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can’t do is ignore them because they change things… they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.”


- Steve Jobs -
co-founder,chairman, and chief executive officer of Apple Inc.
chief executive of Pixar Animation Studios

May you rest in peace,Sir!

super weekie wupper treaty

weekend kemarin saya dan beberapa orang teman yang mempunyai niat yang sama, (baca: liburan) akhirnya memutuskan untuk tegur sapa ke laut di pulau Tidung. Perjalanan yang awalnya akan diikuti oleh 13 orang ini akhirnya berakhir di kami berdelapan. Berangkat!!

SUPER!!!Waktu liburan sangat berbanding lurus dengan tingkat kestress-an masing masing. Entah kenapa rasanya pemilihan tanggal ini sangat tepat. We did have a lot of fun.Although the sun smiling sooo bright and burn us, its not really a matter, when your eyes meet the blue skies and connect with the really blue and deep water....you'll feel blessed!! Bergabung dengan 2 orang teman baru di trip ini yang untungnya merupakan orang orang yang sangat menyenangkan.. they're really blend and fit to the group.Officially can't wait for my next trip..YAY!

"Let me be the one you call If you jump, I will break your fall, lift you up and fly away with you into the night If you need to fall apart, I can mend a broken heart, If you need to crash, then crash and burn, you're not alone"
-Crash and Burn by Savage Garden

dear,Akbari's #1

Welcome to the big three O!!


Happy birthday dear my big brother..

How do you expect me to remember your birthday, when you never look any older?

I'm so grateful that I have you as a brother, even though I super hate it when you put a wet towel carelessly,,when you take the dvd and not put it back in it case when you're done,,carelessly throw dirty clothes,,hate you for not being a morning person,,
your "knowledgeably-because-i'm-older-than-you",,hahahaha..
A better brother you couldn't be.

HAPPY HAPPY HOP HOP!!

We thought our little flight would never end
You were my brother
And I
I knew you were my friend

I wish that we
Were chasing after wooden airplanes
Once again

The roads been long
You know
I've done some good
And yes I guess I've done some bad

I've sung my songs
And you know
Sometimes I swear
I think I've gone completely mad
If the story of my life
Ever makes you sad

(B.J.Thomas - A song for my brother)

*cheer!

fire in the snow

Goodbye
Should be sayin’ that to you by now, shouldn’t I?
Layin’ down the law that I live by,Though maybe next time

I’ve got a thick tongue,Brimming with the words that go unsung
Simmer then the burn for a someone,A wrong one

My ‘why not me?’ philosophy began,

And I tell myself to let the story end,My heart will rest in someone else’s hand

Ooh, how’m I gonna get over you?

I’ll be alright, just not tonight

Someday, oh I wish you’d want me to stay
I’ll be alright, just not tonight,
Someday!

ps: its been a great 9 month..I do really hope i can let you go.

just not tonight..someday

#WORD

BOY : Does he make you laugh like I did?

GIRLS : He doesn't make me cry like you did

simply fresh

MERDEKA!!!

Yay.. Happy birthday my Indonesia...I love you, but I hate our government :( . Sekali Merdeka tetap Merdeka!!!Lol..

(ps : I love this pic so much!! Full with smile and happy-face)

Anyway, after long plan and kinda lil' bit complex,, me and all my best-friend (the group) met up and break the fast together. Lets say it a reunion..It felt so good to finally meet them all again, although not all of them showed up, I do feel relieved and respected. I tell you what, its not easy to arrange some event..even its just a little reunion. You'll end up happy..or disappointed. So I do really thank for all of them who filled their little promise and make it happen there night.kisskiss.

I don't really know how to say it in a couple of word.Better write it in Bahasa,well I'll mix ;) Sebenarnya sudah cukup lama saya tidak bertemu dengan sahabat saya yang satu ini (yess, picture's above ). Terkahir bertemu..almost a year ago..waw..lumayan juga ya, padahal kami berada di kota yang sama -.-'.. anyway, disela sela obrolan mengenai relationship, tiba tiba beliau ini menyeletuk " kok kayaknya lo disakitin mulu deh din". WORD!! wow,, I do realize that, tapi entah kenapa rasanya agak berbeda jika diucapkan dan didengar dari mulut orang lain. Membuat saya berpikir dan merana..hahaha ya, jujur saya agak terdiam dan berpikir.Kenapa ya? Sahabat saya yang lain pernah berkata, "well, skarang kamu dikasih sakit dulu,nanti baru bahagia sampe akhir". Terdengar so cheeesssy dan cliche..tapi yaaaaa semoga saja benar ;) Namun untuk saat ini mungkin boleh dibilang saya sedang berada dalam masa transisi..After all yang terjadi setahun terakhir ini,membuat saya benar benar sulit untuk percaya pada relationship yang "baik" . Semoga saja saya tidak menekan tombol trauma. Anyway, he is the one who told me:

"In life, there will always be things, or people, that make us cry, that betray us, that steal from us, that make us wanna kill ourselves at a certain point of time. But let go. Let go of the anger, the grudge, and any intention for revenge. Let go and see the bigger picture. An unhappy moment in life, is just another moment among other moments to come. Let go and move on." That's kinda made me believe to let go of the people who hurt you. They are toxic. It's nice to be nice, but it's wiser to be wise. I believe God taught us to be nice to people, but God never told us to please everyone we know. We have the right to do the right thing. And as the owner of our own life, we know what's right for us.
Maybe he's even not remember that he once told me that,cause he's the one who I find so hard to move on (oppss..!)

I never imagine how a simple "take care" word can make me feel touched and suddenly sad.
we will never know and sometimes we're not even realize when our word gonna touch somebody and make their life better or worst. We don't realize we can impact on someone life story.

p.e.o.p.l.e

People said I've change so much.
Well, here's the truth. I grew up.
I stopped letting people push me around all the time.
I learned that you can't always be happy.
I (try) accepted reality.

x.o.x.o

Fast!!Fasting!!

Y-A-Y
Ramadhan finally hit us again.
a very exciting month for the Muslims. During which all the holy and all prayers be heard.
I really like the fasting month,makes me eager to determine the iftar menu, making me more and become closer to Allah. I rather difficult to withstand thirst, but that's the point ;) to refrain from any kind of temptation. Plus the living bonus, Iftar invitation to strengthen the relationship, Eid bonus from the office,cost lunch , and if lucky, you can lose weight..Lol.

Happy fasting!
hopefully a blessing month.